Tag Archives: lonely

Space and time…

Posted on May 6, 2018 by vickmcq

I can only speak for myself and where I am currently at but in situations where I struggle particularly where grief is involved, to feel safe, I need space. I was beginning to feel safe in church the past few … Continue reading →

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Counselling

Posted on March 18, 2018 by vickmcq

Do not write off having counselling as a ‘weak act’ or ‘how is talking going to help!’ it is one of the hardest but MOST beneficial things I have ever done. And really if I’m honest even though I’ve been … Continue reading →

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Subconscious

Posted on March 5, 2018 by vickmcq

Back at the dentist. Never known physical pain like the past three days. Literally thought I was going to pass out at church yesterday. It is unbearable. Spoke to a retired dentist whose a friend of mine and worked specifically … Continue reading →

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Little things, not so little… part 2

Posted on January 19, 2018 by vickmcq

Friend came round to help sort out kitchen so new lodger could have space for her food and kitchen bits. This means sorting through the cupboards to put some stuff down the cellar as John had a LOT of utensils … Continue reading →

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Fed up. 

Posted on March 12, 2017 by vickmcq

Can’t seem to finish anything. Couldn’t face church today. Feel very guilty but also justified as first service would have been to intense and second service too many people. Started watching things can’t finish them, started listening to a lecture, … Continue reading →

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